Dan Metcalfe

On speaking with Dan, it is immediately apparent is that he is a man with an unyielding passion to succeed and a desire to encourage others to see their own potential, believing that everyone has the potential to “unleash the miracle within.”

His impressive resume boasts successes in both the entertainment and sporting industry; with accolades including starring on stage in Starlight Express, acting in and directing Netflix movies such as “She’s the Man”, “Kicking and Screaming” and “The Ultimate Goal” and coaching the number one youth team in America.

Dan has worked with the likes of Under Armour, Tottenham Hotspur, Andrew Lloyd Webber and AFC Bournemouth and has faced two major medical crises in his lifetime; a broken spine from an incident during a show on stage and suffering partial brain death from a cycling accident. Rather than accepting his fate that he might never gain full mobility again, he found an inner strength and resilience to overcome these challenges, believing that “nothing great comes easily” and that learning “how to adapt was the greatest lesson learnt.”

Dan was a student at Bournemouth School between 1977 – 1985, under the leadership of Peter Harper. One of five children, he had little interest in education, believing his future was framed on a football pitch. However, after successfully passing the 11+ exam, Dan joined a school which he credits with providing him the opportunity to “tap into his potential.” Coming from a humble background, he found the routine and security of Bournemouth School a blessing, believing that it “gave me a foundation; it gave me a home.” Dan is now a strong advocate in the grammar system, believing that his “baseline would have been a lot lower” without the standards imposed upon him from Bournemouth School.

Dan was an eager footballer from a young age with aspirations to play professionally, and it was the positive tutorage of David Stickland, the Head of the P.E. department at the time who gave him the opportunity to reach his potential. Dan went from sitting on the sidelines to becoming captain in only a few short weeks. In fact, Dan felt so strongly about Mr Stickland’s belief and positive ethos, that he has written a film script titled, One Final Shot, with Mr Stickland’s namesake being given to the main character.

Other accolades assigned to Dan during his school years were his consistent role in the school’s Combined Cadet Force and being awarded the prestigious title of prefect in the upper years.

Upon leaving Bournemouth School, Dan felt his career path was destined to be the Royal Marines. In order to build on his flexibility, he began aerobics classes on a short-term basis, but a new love was born and Dan’s teacher, having seen his potential, dared him to audition for Laine Theatre Arts that year. His audition led to him being signed on a three-year contract that began within a matter of weeks.

In 1985, Dan and his father travelled together to watch Starlight Express at the Apollo Theatre in London. In a discussion afterwards, his father commented that he believed that one day, Dan would be in that show as a performer. Dan’s immediate response was “no, I’ll never be good enough.” His dad replied, stating “somebody has to do it, why can’t it be you?” This conversation became pivotal in Dan’s belief system and even now, he credits his father’s conversation to his positive outlook, believing that the subconscious is built from messages sent from the brain. If these messages are negative, it will instil a negative sense of worth. However, if the messages are positive, then the perception of hurdles and challenges experienced can adapt to “I can’t do it now, but if I want it, I will work on it.” Dan feels that this concept can be implemented for our Bournemouth School students, referring to the analogy of a chain and how a chain is only as strong as every link, encouraging students to “bring your most to every performance.”

Dan eventually did play the lead in Starlight Express in the West End, and travelled on tour to Japan, Germany and Las Vegas, which is where an unfortunate accident on stage resulted in his fractured spine. Being told he would be disabled for life, paralyzed, and having temporarily lost sight in one eye, Dan undertook six-months of critical healing and focussed his energies on allowing the body time to heal. Despite his adversity, his outlook was strong; “why be the victim when you can be a hero?”

As part of his recovery, he coached soccer to young adults. He led his team to the semi-finals of the state of Nevada and ultimately, created the number one youth team in America.

His second injury occurred during a bike ride, with a metal gate accidentally being lowered onto his head at 22mph. Injuries included a broken coccyx and partial brain damage. It was at this point that Dan began to study the inner workings of the brain to see if he could encourage not only ways to heal but also to see if other parts of his brain could be trained to take over from the area that may not recover. He returned to his studies, choosing to study Neuroplasticity at Warton Business School to learn a new level of business acumen. This, he believes, showed him the value of “staying curious” and the importance of education, thus linking back to his time at Bournemouth School. His studies led to understanding in intricacies of brain function to the creation of his Total Balance Company which made $13 million in the first year and has helped over 70,000 worldwide including over 1000 Parkinson’s patients, along with the company, Born Superhuman, which encourages everyone to tap into their potential.

Adversity is no stranger to Dan and he has taught himself to face difficulties head-on with a positive mindset and a desire to keep challenging himself at every level. This mindset is something that can be incorporated into school life for students about to sit exams. When asked what message Dan would like to give to our students, he said that school should be seen as a safe place where “you can face adversity with the right people willing to back you.” He also wants students to understand the importance of facing challenges head-on as “the ability to face adversity is to unleash the brilliance!”